River Boat Cruise, Gecko Welcome Home

[Note: This is another blog based on my weekly emails to my family on the mainland. Since much of my news these days relates to trying to age gracefully, this series might be called The Geezer Gazette.]

11/8/25

Aloha Everyone!

 

We got back from our mainland trip on 11/3, a date which I now regard as the anniversary of "Black Tuesday."  Overall it was a great trip for a number of reasons.  First, consider the source when I tell you that we actually enjoyed the river boat cruise. We're reluctant cruisers, and you may recall we had a so-so experience recently on a European trip on the Danube.  Our Mississippi cruise was much, much more to our liking.  The ship was a replica of stern wheeler paddle boat.  Built in 2018, it was very comfortable and well-appointed. Our large stateroom had a private balcony that provided us with a beautiful view of the passing river bank.  One aspect that we appreciated was that the 8-day itinerary included periods of daytime sailing when we could actually make use of the balcony. The boat holds just 180 passengers, which made for a much more relaxed and friendly atmosphere than our European cruise. 

 

The trip started in Memphis, where we stayed downtown for four nights on our own before starting the river cruise.  We liked Memphis very much.  This is the home of famous Beale street, a mecca for Blues performers. It is also home to the fabulous Civil Rights Museum, housed in the former Lorraine Motel where Martin Luther King was assassinated. Memphis is also the location of Elvis' Graceland.  We spent one night at the Graceland Guest House as part of our cruise package. This allowed us to tour the mansion and the associated museum, a deep dive into Elvis' career, private life and his personality.  I came away with an appreciation for him as a much more complex person that I had previously thought. 

 

Another positive aspect of the trip is that the boat stopped at a number of places we had never visited

Old But New

before.  For example, the first stop after boarding in Memphis was a small town called Cleveland, in the Mississippi Delta. We ;earned several surprising things here.  First, the Mississippi Delta is far inland, not where the river dumps into the ocean.  It's considered a delta because it frequently floods along this stretch of the Mississippi, covering a very large area with floodwater.  Second, the region is home to more Grammy Award winners than anywhere else in the country, and the town hosts the National Grammy Museum for this reason.  The distinctive music of the area is called "Delta Blues," a sample of which we heard as part of the shipboard entertainment.  The third surprise was that this area has a large Chinese population, descendants of people who were recruited as sharecroppers on the plantations after the Civil War, when large numbers of former slaves migrated north.  Many Chinese immigrants rose above their sharecropper status to become successful proprietors of small general stores -- much like the Japanese did here in Hawai'i.  Though the Chinese weren't Black, they weren't considered White, either, and they faced considerable discrimination, including the Chinese Exclusion Act of 1882 which prevented new immigrants and denied citizenship to those already in the country. Sound familiar?

 

Mostly Decorative

The 8-day  journey to New Orleans included a number of other interesting and historic stops which we enjoyed  -- Vicksburg, Natchez, St, Francisville and Vacherie. After one night in New Orleans we were hustled off early the next day to allow the crew to get the ship ready for the return voyage scheduled to start in just a few hours.  We remained in New Orleans for another 3 nights on our own.  We have been to this unique city a couple of times before, with the last visit being just before Covid.  We had some great food, soaked up the fun-loving atmosphere, and generally had a great time. Two highlights were a visit to the terrific sculpture garden at the New Orleans Art Museum, and going through the fabulous World War II Museum.  The War Museum is a sobering, immersive experience that is an unflinching look at the early failures of the U.S. as a fighting force, the horrors of being a soldier, and the immense destruction and savagery of warfare.  It documents our successes, of course, but makes it clear these came at an enormous cost.  

 

Our trip finished with a 10-day visit to Ohio, where we got together with many dear friends, and got a reminder of what late fall weather in Ohio is like -- C-O-L-D.  The locals weren't complaining -- after all it was sunny and in the low 60's during the day, with a nice invigorating drop to the high 30's/low 40's at night.  What's wrong with that?  Well, for a wimpy Hawaiian boy like me that's downright painful!  Anyway, the warmth of hospitality from our long-time friends definitely helped counteract the chill...

 

Back home I immediately peeled off all my layers and donned my shorts and t-shirt.  Our first morning

Hangin' with ma Bud

back we reunited with our breakfast-table geckos by the pool.  It was clear they were glad to see us, with the first ones arriving within minutes. Some eagerly accepted our bits of papaya, but some also just wanted to hang out and enjoy our presence.  One of our favorites, who we have named Pom-Pom because of the shape of the dots on her back, chose to forgo eating and instead hopped into my lap and just sat there for a few minutes.  Very endearing, and a perfect welcome home greeting!

 

Take care.  I'll catch you up on Geezer Gazette news next time. Keep fighting for the middle -- it's the only place sanity can prevail.